“New Year, new you” messages are everywhere right now, but putting too much pressure on yourself to stick to rigid resolutions and harsh self-criticism will set you up for failure.
What if there’s a better way to making 2026 your year waiting for you outside?
Here’s how you can replenish your reserves and your self-compassion – one green moment at a time.
Nurtured by nature
Being in nature reduces stress hormones and encourages healthy movement. But it goes beyond that – it also helps us feel part of something bigger than ourselves.
Instead of the disconnection and isolation of screentime, a few minutes outside actually boosts your sense of connection, even if you’re on your own. And that’s been shown to enhance compassion towards others and yourself.
Gentler approaches work harder
Self-compassion and nature-based activities are more sustainable than forcing yourself to try punishing routines.
Gentle habits like daily walks in the park or stretching on a sunny balcony work better because they’re so much more achievable. Approaching change with kindness has been shown to make you more likely to stick to healthy habits and build confidence.
Movement medicine
Forests, beaches, koppies, parks … Mzansi’s natural spaces invite you to build balance into your life.
- Enjoy micro moments. Sink your toes into grass, feel the breeze, listen to birds – it takes a few seconds but changes your day.
- Take daily walks. Even if it’s a 10-minute stroll. Pay attention to your senses – what you see, hear, feel – it’ll help quiet your mind.
- Breathe it in. Go outside, take a deep breath and focus on scents like cut grass, warm earth, sweet-smelling flowers, sea air…
- Get into gardening. It’s active, outdoors and an excellent low-impact exercise for all ages.
- Welcome nature in. Pot plants and container gardens are perfect for those without a yard.
- Step away from your phone. You can’t enjoy sunshine and birdsong if you’re doom scrolling.
Top tips for self-compassion
Trees don’t grow overnight – and neither do we. Focus on gradually building inner strength with daily self-compassion.
- Think green. Overwhelmed? Pause, close your eyes, take a breath and picture a lush, beautiful tree – research shows this reduces stress.
- Be kind. Talk to yourself with the same empathy as you would to someone you care about.
- Stay realistic. Off-days are human, so expect and accept them.
- Accept imperfection. Progress is more meaningful than perfection.
- Celebrate every win. Tell yourself you did a great job and do a little dance of joy (even if you just imagine it).
Reference
Compassion and nature, University of Derby research








